One of the exercises we had in my Interpersonal Communication course last semester determined each one’s personality.
Phlegmatic, a Peaceful Phlegmatic is what I am. It said that I am more of a watcher and a listener and I seldom do the talking, which is more of a fact than not. I also do not have the tendency to give unsolicited advice to friends, which is a good thing. Nonetheless, here comes the weakest spot, it also said that I can be apathetic about a lot of issues and concerns. Guilty.
Another exercise revealed our conflict resolution styles, and surprisingly, mine is Competing.
It was surprising since it, in one way or another, goes against my Phlegmatic personality. But, I could not approve more. I become assertive when I feel the need to be. And when my competing side breaks the surface, my consideration of relationships draws near the ground . As long as I have arguments and justifications to present, I do not heed whoever I speak to.
I seldom speak, so whenever I do, it means that I can no longer keep up with the rush of brain waves and emotions. I seldom speak, so whenever I do, it must be something burning. I seldom speak, so whenever I do, I want to be heard and understood.
Others said that having two opposing natures is constructive. Though in my position, it is not always the case. There are times when these two natures with two voices rumble on at each other, and I am left disarmed and helpless.=s
Phlegmatic, a Peaceful Phlegmatic is what I am. It said that I am more of a watcher and a listener and I seldom do the talking, which is more of a fact than not. I also do not have the tendency to give unsolicited advice to friends, which is a good thing. Nonetheless, here comes the weakest spot, it also said that I can be apathetic about a lot of issues and concerns. Guilty.
Another exercise revealed our conflict resolution styles, and surprisingly, mine is Competing.
It was surprising since it, in one way or another, goes against my Phlegmatic personality. But, I could not approve more. I become assertive when I feel the need to be. And when my competing side breaks the surface, my consideration of relationships draws near the ground . As long as I have arguments and justifications to present, I do not heed whoever I speak to.
I seldom speak, so whenever I do, it means that I can no longer keep up with the rush of brain waves and emotions. I seldom speak, so whenever I do, it must be something burning. I seldom speak, so whenever I do, I want to be heard and understood.
Others said that having two opposing natures is constructive. Though in my position, it is not always the case. There are times when these two natures with two voices rumble on at each other, and I am left disarmed and helpless.=s
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